From Chapter Two – Do You Need a Financial Attitude
Adjustment?
Rich People Think and Act Rich
Rich people typically become rich because of their mindsets
(attitudes) and the result of how they apply their knowledge (actions).
Such attitudes and actions last over a lifetime. Therefore, although a
wealthy individual might lose his or her money, the person will often
regain the loss (think Donald Trump, who nearly went broke but became
a multimillionaire once again).
For instance, rich people generally believe that one must pay
oneself first. They know how hard it is to save money, so for them, saving
is never optional. After saving, they live on whatever is left and avoid
using debt to finance excess spending. In fact, the wealthy usually consider
debt to be a dirty four letter word. They believe that consumer debt is
all about buying more than one can afford. Debt is simply negative savings.
(We’re not talking about business debt or mortgages here.) Most
wealthy people maintain the following attitudes:
• Money delivers freedom, fun, advantages, and
choices.
• Money provides for better schooling and superior
medical care.
• Money allows you to be more generous toward those
in need.
• Money lets you do what you want with your life.
You don’t have to work doing something you don’t love.
• Money provides security, allowing you to worry
less and sleep better at night.
• Money allows you to travel the world and experience
more of the pleasures in life.
• With money you can roll with the punches if a
disaster should occur (e.g., a hurricane, the furnace dying, or the car
conking out).
When I consider how strongly early teachings impact our
adult beliefs and actions, I realize I am incredibly fortunate to have
been raised by a mom who managed money fabulously. I often heard her say, “Money
doesn’t buy happiness, but I’d rather be rich and miserable
than poor and miserable.” Those words have played in my head my
entire life, and all that I learned from her has supported my goal of
being financially secure. No matter whether I’m wildly miserable
or incredibly happy, I still want to be rich!
Even without the benefit of fiscally responsible parenting,
you can empower yourself to become wealthy. Only 20 percent of the millionaires
in this country inherited their wealth—the remaining 80 percent
earned their wealth themselves. My attitude has always been: if they can
do it, I can too. Always remember, a positive attitude is instrumental
in achieving financial success!